RECLAIM YOUR SOVEREIGNTY
HEY, I'M CLARISSA HARFORD,
Host of Her Voice, Her Way™ podcast and founder of The VIVE Method™.
I’m a politically sovereign, independent moderately conservative woman — and my work is rooted in teaching women detachment, discernment, and how to heal their relationship wounds, starting with the one they have with themselves. I’m not here to tell you what to believe. I’m here to challenge you to think for yourself, to take your power back, and to stop handing over your body, voice, or life to people who don’t value you.
Charlie Kirk’s death didn’t just shock me — it lit a fire. Because for all the people labeling him “anti-woman,” I saw something different. I saw a man who spoke uncomfortable truths. I saw someone who believed women deserve protection, not pandering. And yes, I’ll be unpacking that. Because somewhere along the line, we confused true leadership with oppression and turned trauma into our personality. That confusion ends here.
My mission just multiplied 1000X. I help women who have been gaslit, abused, and manipulated — women who were taught that protecting themselves is unloving, or that saying no makes them the bad guy. I know that story because I lived it. But I also know this: love without leadership creates confusion. And safety without self-responsibility isn’t real safety.
As women, we have a personal responsibility to choose ourselves, to set boundaries, to protect our nervous systems, to listen to our intuition, and to stop choosing men who aren’t equipped to lead. That’s not victim-blaming — it’s reclaiming the part of you that was trained to ignore the warning signs. You can be soft and still carry discernment. You can want love without sacrificing your standards.
Her Voice, Her Way™ Podcast is launching soon.
This podcast is for the woman who’s healing, rising, and refusing to repeat what hurt her. If you’re tired of false love, fake promises, and being told to settle down or stay silent — stay close. We’re not just talking about change.
We’re building a path forward.
My professional background shaped this mission. Not just because I’ve made money, but because I’ve made decisions. I’ve built, burned down, and rebuilt businesses. I’ve made exits with no safety net. And I’ve walked away from a DV marriage — not because I had it all figured out, but because I developed real skills that gave me real options. That’s what I teach now.
I’m a former NYC direct sales leader, a high-performing corporate banker, and a lifelong entrepreneur. The very sales and communication skills I learned in those high-pressure rooms became the same skills that helped me exit my marriage and rebuild from scratch. And now, I help other women do the same — in their own way, on their own terms.
I've also lived and traveled all over the USA with my two daughters, home/road schooling and collecting life experiences; I have dug and dissected life always seeking the truth similarly to Charlie Kirk.
I have a lot more to say.
And I’m saying it soon.
Her Voice, Her Way™ Podcast is coming.
© Clarissa Harford 2025
